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Everything Happens for a Reason, Right?

September 21, 2011 by Cassie 82 Comments

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That is what I have to believe right now.  I am usually an upbeat person.  I try to look on the bright side.  I try to be happy and live without regret because what is the point?  But sometimes things happen, and I begin to wonder why.  It’s been one of those weeks.

I have been waiting to write this post to find the words, and then today received more bad news and just figured why not.  I’ve been kicked twice in the stomach the past week.  The stories are long and drawn out so I will spare you all the details.

1. You know I SOLD my house, and am in the process of moving so that I could go for my dream of a shop.  Well, one week ago, the space was leased.  There is much more to the story that upsets me even more, but I am not going to get into those details.  But just know that I have uprooted my entire family for a dream that is not happening any time soon.  The feelings of guilt I had were atrocious.  Chris was wonderful and asked me if I was going to be happy in our new town and home and location, and the answers were all yes, yes yes!  I am so excited about the house and the area.  So that trumped my sadness over the shop, and I moved on mentally.  I was happily looking forward to moving in on Monday.  Which leads me to the second kick….

2. I have found out today, that although our finances are all in order, because of the huge upheaval at Bank of America last week and all the job cuts, our lender had to push back closing one week.  That may not seem like a big deal, and if we were allowed to preoccupy it might not be.  But the seller seems to have a sister who is a realtor who has advised her she should never do pre-occupancy.  And the seller’s agent is related to Godzilla.  Or the Devil.  Or both.  Nasty.  Mean.  And unsympathetic at all.  Unsympathetic to the fact that I have already scheduled getting my dogs back.  Unsympathetic that I have already told Sawyer’s school he will be out Friday, and already called the new school to let them know he’d be there Tuesday.  Unsympathetic to the fact that I have already enrolled both children in activities which start next week.  Unsympathetic that we have already called our moving company, and who knows how much more this will cost us.  Unsympathetic.

My agent is going to try her hardest tomorrow to convince them to let us preoccupy.  I will keep you posted.

I do not usually write posts like this…. I really try to always be a positive and upbeat person.  But bear with me.  Right now, I am feeling beaten, defeated, and at an utter loss as to why all this is happening and what I am supposed to do.

Sorry- get back to the link party in the last post.  I had to let you all know what was going on because you all have been so wonderful and supportive, and have asked me lots of questions.  And I have avoided answering some because I didn’t know what to say to you.  But I do believe in the power of positive thinking, and hoping you can all send positive vibes this way so we can get into that house on Monday and start our life out there.  Thank you.  Now back to Glee.

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  1. Rachel G. says

    September 21, 2011 at 12:43 am

    Oh Cassie, I’m so sorry to hear about your string of bad luck. You are right, everything does happen for a reason. Sometimes it’s just hard to remember that. Keep your chin up babe! It will all work out in the end πŸ™‚

    Rachel
    xoxo

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  2. Kristen says

    September 21, 2011 at 12:47 am

    I’m sorry you’re going through all of this. It’s really does stink! But things will work out – somehow, some way. Tomorrow will be better!
    Kristen@mycoveredbridge

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  3. Kate@TwentySixToLife says

    September 21, 2011 at 12:48 am

    Ugh, I’m so sorry Cassie. That really sucks. I understand how hard it is to try to stay positive when it feels like nothing is going right, but just remember that you have a beautiful wonderful family and it WILL all work out in the end because you are going to be in a great new place to make your home.

    And if that doesn’t make it all better, there’s always wine and ice cream πŸ˜‰

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  4. Tracy's Trinkets and Treasures says

    September 21, 2011 at 12:54 am

    When I read the part about the shop, I immediately had the thought of a better opportunity lurking around the corner. Maybe it wasn’t meant to be because something else bigger and better is waiting for you! I am saying a prayer you get to move in as planned. Very tough stuff. Hang in there.

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  5. mapleandmagnolia.com says

    September 21, 2011 at 12:55 am

    Cassie, I’m so sorry that things aren’t going like they should for you right now. But it WILL work out. Have faith. I’ll bet a better space comes available. Just watch and see! πŸ™‚ Hugs to you and hoping that tomorrow is a better day.

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  6. Katie says

    September 21, 2011 at 12:55 am

    I’m sorry about your bad news. Your husband sounds wonderfully supportive. I pray that God will show you the silver lining in all of this. He must have something even better in store for you.

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  7. Jamie says

    September 21, 2011 at 12:56 am

    I’m so sorry to hear about this. I do believe God has something amazing in store for you. Praying for comfort, strength and wisdom for you during this time!

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  8. Melissa at HOUSEography says

    September 21, 2011 at 12:56 am

    That just completely sucks. It’s hard to find reasons to be positive but you’ll get there and the extra week won’t matter in the end. My only idea is to write a personal note to the owner and hope they can accommodate you. Maybe offer a little extra $ and see if that helps. Unfortunately (fortunately?) $ usually does talk in real estate.

    As for your store space, the space won’t really matter in the end – but the stuff you do with it does. You’ll certainly find another space and probably one that’s even better.

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  9. Elizabeth says

    September 21, 2011 at 12:59 am

    I am so sorry for your troubles! Moving is always difficult and hard for both parties. I hope you work something out with the sellers, did you ask them if your could rent from them until the situation is worked out? That way the liability is yours not theirs.

    Best of luck, we are all rooting for you!

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  10. Terry says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:00 am

    My prayers are with you during this time of unsettling and unease. Know that things will fall into place. I have found that every single time something like this has happened, something better happens that wouldn’t have otherwise. Keep positive and lean on God for support.

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  11. Katie says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:01 am

    I’m so sorry to hear it Cassie!! I really hate that your space was leased out from under you – I truly hope that you find a new space to work in, something even better than this one! You’re amazing talented and so sweet, and I know soon enough you’ll be rocking out your own shop! πŸ™‚ I hope Godzilla allows you all to preoccupy – what disappointment! Best wishes! I hope everything works out for you!

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  12. Lisa @ Before Meets After says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:02 am

    Cassie I am so sorry! We too had issues when moving and it was not pretty…but know that in the end it will all work out. It’s hard to hear that now, but we went through stressful house stuff for 8 months! I hope they change their minds and know that I will keep my fingers crossed for you!

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  13. Sixty-Fifth Avenue says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:03 am

    Ugg! Things get even crazier when kids are involved don’t they? I am sending you postive vibes, hang in there Cassie!
    xo

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  14. Jenna says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:06 am

    Oh Cassie, I’m so sorry! That really sucks, I can’t believe how awful that agent is. I will be praying for you guys that it all works out well!

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  15. Korrie@RedHenHome says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:09 am

    I am so sorry. I have been where you are on the closing delays, and not being able to get in, and having your whole life on hold. It’s hard. Really hard. But some day soon, you will be on the other side of this, and realize that it was just a bump in the road. Your new home and new life are waiting for you, and you’ll get to enjoy them for years and years. This one week can’t take any of that away from you!
    That said…you will be in my prayers.

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  16. Jaime says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:18 am

    Cassie – I’m not good with these moments and not sure what to say but know that I’m thinking of you and yes everything happens for a reason and keep following your dream. Let the next post be a good one.

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  17. Laurie says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:19 am

    I am sorry to hear all the ickiness- But I agree that thinking positive is the best way to go. Things will work out. You know usually there is something better waiting and you won’t know what it is going to be until it hits you. You always put out positive vibes, they will come back to you.

    The house situation sucks, hopefully you can get in earlier. Hope things get better. πŸ™‚

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  18. Nicole {Home for Hire} says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:22 am

    I think that it is okay to have difficult days and accept them, but we should also realize that it will be a new day tomorrow!
    Here are two quotes of encouragement!
    We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars. ~Oscar Wilde

    Let Him (God) have all your worries and cares, for He is always thinking about you and watching everything that concerns you.
    1 Peter 5:7

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  19. Twice Nice says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:27 am

    Like everyone else I am so sorry for all that you have gone through. Moves, even the easy ones, are tough on everyone. I’ve been there too on the “preoccupying” issue. Hang in there! Praying for a certain realtor to find some compassion, and for God to show you a new path for your dream business.
    Deb

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  20. the modern cottage says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:39 am

    I am sorry Cassie. I too believe that an even better shop is in your near future.

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  21. Rosemary@villabarnes says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:42 am

    Oh Cassie,
    I’m so sorry for all the drama. I sincerely believe that something much better will come your way. Praying that your housing situation is resolved.

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  22. Ali Richardson says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:44 am

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! as i’m sure you guessed, those are NOT happy exclamations points. LOVE YOU!!

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  23. Jenny says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:44 am

    I’m so sorry! Those are kicks! Buying a house STINKS right now. We jumped through similiar hoops and I have expect the bank to call us and say “Ooops, we made a mistake. Give us our money back.” LOL Huge hugs and I know you’ll get your dreams!!

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  24. Lisa @ Shine Your Light says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:48 am

    How stressful, annoying, aggravating and emotional that all that happened and all at once! Just think of how these obstacles will be behind you soon and you and your family have years of joy ahead of you in your new home to look forward to!
    Hoping all goes smoothly here on out!!!

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  25. Yanet @ 3 Sun Kissed Boys says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:51 am

    How frustrating, Cassie! If it makes you feel any better, we preoccupied our house about a week early and our lender thought the sellers were crazy to let us do that.

    Bright side, um… , um… crickets chirping. Well, I’m sure there gotta be one. I’ll let you know when I think of it. πŸ˜€

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  26. Kacey says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:59 am

    Ugh, what a bummer, on both counts. I think you’re right that everything happens for a reason…but that doesn’t do much to make you feel better right now, I know. I just know you’ll find a way to make your business work – you are so smart and talented! Big hugs!

    Kacey

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  27. 17 Perth says

    September 21, 2011 at 2:11 am

    Oh wow–I am so sorry. Thank you for your honesty and openness about what you are going through. I do believe that things happen for a reason. I am not sure what your beliefs are, but I feel when times are tough for me, to believe solely in God and His plan, for He will provide. You are a smart, talented lady and I know whatever comes of this, you will rise above this tough times. Sending prayers your way for resolution on all accounts. xo

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  28. Leslie @ Farm Fresh Fun says

    September 21, 2011 at 2:11 am

    Yikes – so sorry! You and your family are in my prayers. Once you get through the next transition it’ll all seem worthwhile and a distant memory (I hope)!
    (((hugs)))
    Leslie

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  29. Cassie {Hi Sugarplum!} says

    September 21, 2011 at 2:16 am

    Ugh, cassie, that sucks!!! I know you don’t want to hear a bunch of Pollyanna, but it’s always true. At some point you’ll be able to look back and see exactly why all this happened the way it did, and the next shop locale will be even better! Until then, deep breaths and fake it!
    Xoxoxo

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  30. Lisa @ Turning Tables says

    September 21, 2011 at 2:23 am

    UGH!!!!!!! Seriously UGH!!!! I am so sorry, friend. That is all so annoying and unnecessary and not cool at all. Fingers crossed for things to go your way and for things to look up in all categories! I’m thinking about you and wishing we were eating sushi and venting together!!! Grrrrrr! We’ve got your back over here, NO DOUBT! xo

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  31. Suzy www.savedbysuzy.blogspot.com says

    September 21, 2011 at 2:24 am

    Cassie, I am so sorry. I know that He has a plan for you, even though we don’t know what it is. You are such a positive person, I know you will survive all of this disappointment and frustration. Sending prayers and hugs your way.

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  32. Sharon @ Elizabeth & Co. says

    September 21, 2011 at 2:37 am

    Seriously? That is a total bummer!

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  33. Suzanne@Meridian Road says

    September 21, 2011 at 2:39 am

    That stinks! I’d be upset, too. Over the delay on the house and the retail space.
    I really do think things happen for a reason, but it’s sometimes so hard to see the reason while we’re in the middle of it all. I know it sounds hollow for someone to say “it’s going to be OK”, but it is. Hang in there!

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  34. Christine@Sally,Ry,andLaLa says

    September 21, 2011 at 2:40 am

    sending positive vibes your way!

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  35. deborah@confessions of a craigslist junkie says

    September 21, 2011 at 2:46 am

    I’m sorry you’re going through this. It sucks. But I too strongly believe (and know from experience)that everything happens for a reason (even if it isn’t immediately apparent), and in the long run it will all be positive. Keeping my fingers crossed that your agent will be able to reason with the rhymes with witchy seller’s agent and seller!

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  36. cheryl @ nefotlak. says

    September 21, 2011 at 2:54 am

    oh wow. what an incredibly sucky time you’ve been having.
    i’m sending over loads of good vibes from down here in AUS. i do hope that things smooth out very VERY soon.
    hugz,
    cheryl xox.

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  37. Courtney says

    September 21, 2011 at 2:59 am

    This affirmation always works for me:
    I deserve the best and I accept the best now!

    Because you do deserve it, Cassie!!
    Keep repeating it, and that’s what you’ll get!
    Hugs and Love xx

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  38. Chi-Chi Studio Designs says

    September 21, 2011 at 3:13 am

    I’m so very sorry. I know everything will work out for the best, but it’s hard to see that when you’re in the middle of a situation like this.

    When God closes a door, he’ll open a window.

    xxx
    Kristin

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  39. WhisperWood Cottage and Junkologie says

    September 21, 2011 at 3:13 am

    It’s always clear in hindsight why things happen. Until that time comes, hang in there, Cassie. I’m sure there’s a greater plan at work. πŸ™‚ Big hugs!!

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  40. Shari says

    September 21, 2011 at 3:17 am

    I have always been a strong believer that everything happens for a reason and that eventually, you find out why. It may not be right away but at some point down the road, you will look back and be thankful that it happened the way it did because “fill in the blank here.” So, hang in there. Figure out a way to make it an adventure for your kids and turn it into one of those “remember when” stories they always tell 10 years from now. Maybe stay in one of those week-long economy suite hotels in your new town. The kids will feel like it is a vacation… Good luck and keep looking ahead. πŸ™‚

    Shari
    turnstylevogue.com

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  41. Shari says

    September 21, 2011 at 3:20 am

    Oh, and give that beagle a BIG lovin’ squeeze…and the beagle/bassett too πŸ™‚

    Shari

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  42. Waahhchooo says

    September 21, 2011 at 3:25 am

    Cassie I know it is hard to understand but in the end this will have worked out for the best. You have to keep the faith and believe that God will never give you more than you can handle (although sometimes it can feel like you are drowning).

    I have been looking for an teaching job for three years now and every fall when school starts up and I don’t have a job I feel like such a failure. I have to continue to substitute teach (which pays hardly anything and sometimes feels like a waste of my time). Around this time of year I often think “Have I made the right decision? Should I really be a teacher?” I always know deep down that the answer is yes but it isn’t always so obvious.

    Keep on doing what you do best and everything will work out. Believe!

    I love your blog and I appreciate you sharing your world with all of us.

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  43. Sara @ Russet Street Reno says

    September 21, 2011 at 3:33 am

    That sounds awful, just think that it will pass and you will all move on. I’m thinking about you and hoping you work it all out!

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  44. c.w.frosting says

    September 21, 2011 at 4:15 am

    Oh goodness Cassie, what a lot to deal with. Sometimes it’s best to get all the complaining out. I’m sure everything will eventually work out for the better. Thinking of you!

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  45. Tammy @ Type A says

    September 21, 2011 at 4:43 am

    girl that stinks! i’m so sorry this is happening, but it’s good to hear you are still happy about the move! you let it all out, we’re here for you! hugs and luvs!

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  46. Megan @ Apple House Revival says

    September 21, 2011 at 6:47 am

    Cassie, I’m so so sorry. I’ve been avoiding writing a post like this on my blog for a while now too. WHY does crap like this have to happen? I dearly hope that your agent can talk some sense into Godzilla’s cousin.

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  47. Amanda says

    September 21, 2011 at 7:21 am

    Oh poppit, what a poop couple of things to happen, but things definitely happen for a reason. Something fantastic will arise out of these upsets.
    It’s wonderful that you are still excited about the new house, I’m sure you will be un-packing boxes before you know it!

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  48. Nelly says

    September 21, 2011 at 9:52 am

    Oh you poor thing I so hope it all goes well.I also hope that Godzillas mother gets a concience.

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  49. Sarah AKA The Thriftress says

    September 21, 2011 at 11:05 am

    Cassie I am so sorry for you and your family. I’m sure a new opportunity will present itself soon.

    On the house front, my parents are going through something similar. They have been living in an temp apartment for a month waiting to close on their new house. Their poor dog is in a kennel and he such an emotional dog that he gets depressed.

    I hope you can reschedule everything and that the new closing happens soon. Fingers crossed for you!

    Sarah

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  50. Amy of The Salvage Collection says

    September 21, 2011 at 11:17 am

    well, that just rots on both fronts. have faith and patience…things DO happen for a reason but often times that reason is hard to see for a while.

    thanks for sharing, though–it’s good to know you’re a real person, too!

    sending my positives….

    amy

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  51. Megan says

    September 21, 2011 at 11:23 am

    Oh Cassie, I’m so sorry! I’m sending some good karma your way, hopefully things look better tomorrow!! {{hugs}}

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  52. Kara @ June & Bear says

    September 21, 2011 at 11:35 am

    It seems moving plans never go off without a hitch. I hope you are settled soon.

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  53. knack says

    September 21, 2011 at 12:22 pm

    sweet friend….I had not read this before my blog post today with the quote……but I want you to know that I have had a couple really hard kicks in the gut over the past year and a half…..and they hurt, and it sucks really bad, but never , ever give up on your dreams and goals…..the other side of all that pain and gut kickin’ is a much better place that you will see soon……I’m calling back to you right now to say that good things are coming, and you will be exactly where you want to be…..and even though it is hard to make sense of all of the yuck sometimes…..it is all woven into the tapestry of our lives to create a beautiful masterpiece. much love to ya! xoxo

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  54. bonniegetchell says

    September 21, 2011 at 12:53 pm

    Hey Cassie! I’m praying for you! And I thank you for being real today instead of pretending everything’s okay! We need some real-ness on blogland! πŸ™‚

    -Bonnie @ Revolutionaries
    http://bonniegetchell.blogspot.com

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  55. gail says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:00 pm

    Ohh, dear Cassie! I too believe everything happens for a reason. About the shop, the timing is just wrong, however–IT GOT YOU to make a move. A move I’m sure you would never have done otherwise. Your dream will happen, there are bigger and better dreams out there for you! I feel it!
    About the housing… MEAN people make me mad! I so hope that things will work out for you to pre-occupy. Prayers, positive thoughts, and being upbeat for you from afar!
    gail

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  56. Andrea says

    September 21, 2011 at 1:00 pm

    So sorry about your week. I am sending lots of prayers and positive thinking your way. Something good is bound to come of this. Chin up! BTW, love your honesty and sincerity.

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  57. Gina says

    September 21, 2011 at 2:20 pm

    Hey Cassie,
    Just want you to know that you are not alone in how you feel. Thanks for putting yourself out there, and being honest. Lately I have been having a difficult time with understanding why things are not going in the direction I want. He has a plan for all of us, and it may not be what we think! But, it is going to be better then what we could ever dream! I am sure that another door will open for you soon! Hope today is a better day for you!
    BackPorchRoots
    Gina

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  58. Kim @ A Brush of Whimsy says

    September 21, 2011 at 2:23 pm

    Oh, Sweetie, how disappointing! I just wanted to offer a little happy thought~ do you ever start out on a piece of furniture with a certain idea of how you want it, and something just goes wrong~ the stained top looks horrible and splotchy, the glaze turns the paint an icky color, etc.(and you freak out, especially when it’s for a client?) Then enter plan B~ you keep working on, tweaking your original plans and before you know it, the new version is way cooler than your origianl idea, and you NEVER would have thought of doing it that way had the original plan not flopped? This is how it’s going to be for you, it just KNOW it! PLAN B, girlfriend! It’s going to rock! Love you!
    Hugs,
    Kim πŸ™‚

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  59. The Frosted Gardner says

    September 21, 2011 at 2:37 pm

    Hang in there dear friend. I don’t blame you a bit for the disappointment and frustration!! One day you will look back and think remember when – and know you endured!

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  60. A Flair for Vintage Decor says

    September 21, 2011 at 3:04 pm

    Cassie– I am so sorry to hear about all of this! Life always gives us obstacles…but I have always found that when I look back on them they all happened for a reason…but it is so so hard to see it when you are going through it! Hang in there…it will turn around! Take care, Caroline

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  61. Designing Domesticity says

    September 21, 2011 at 3:14 pm

    That’s a tough one. Nothing like kicking you when you are down, but like you said, all things happen for a reason and I am sure the silver lining will present itself soon. Best of luck, liz

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  62. Danielle {freshquince} says

    September 21, 2011 at 3:49 pm

    Oh Cassie…thing do work out in the end. Just have faith and it will all work out just beautiful…the way it is supposed to. My thoughts are with you girl…chin up. Everything is gonna be okay! xx Danielle

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  63. Erin says

    September 21, 2011 at 4:53 pm

    UGH! What a crappy week! Thank you for sharing all of this–hopefully you felt a teensy bit better after getting it off your chest? I know this won’t make you feel better at this point, but when God closes a door, he always opens a window. A similar thing happened to me…I was all set to move into a booth at a fabulous store with tons of traffic, right by my house, it was going to be perfect…and then at the last minute I was told that it was not going to work out (and was not given much of a reason…something about another vendor not wanting competition). I was pretty crushed, but knew that there had to be something amazing in store for me…so fast forward to last week and the most amazing opportunity has presented itself with even better traffic and fabulous people to work with! Hang in there, Cassie! Saying prayers that you get to preoccupy! πŸ™‚

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  64. Jazz says

    September 21, 2011 at 5:53 pm

    :0( oh Cassie, I’m so sorry to hear that things aren’t going as planned. Just keep faith that yes, everything happens for a reason and when one door closes another door, beautifully painted of course, opens.

    *Hug* <– a virtual hug going out to you

    I’ll keep you in my prayers.

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  65. hilary @ the upcycle furniture co. says

    September 21, 2011 at 8:29 pm

    hang in there cassie

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  66. Dharma says

    September 21, 2011 at 8:35 pm

    Just so you know….I am very quiet and discreet (I have my quiet shoes on) and I am for hire for nefarious deeds πŸ™‚

    Hang in there, Buttercup!! Nothing good ever came without it’s challenges and judging by the way this has gone….you will be winning the Powerball lottery next week anyway.

    Problem solved.

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  67. The Kramer Angle says

    September 21, 2011 at 9:34 pm

    Okay, this is going to take another bottle of wine. As you know, I have lots of it and we need to get together to drink it, to figure out a big old master plan for you and Primitive and Proper and to jump start the dream again.

    It’s alive, it’s just in another form.

    As for Bank of America. They suck.

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  68. The house That Can says

    September 21, 2011 at 10:23 pm

    When Life give you lemons … make lemonade! Easier said than done, but I am praying for you!!! As is a whole lot of others! Believe Believe Believe!!!!!

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  69. lauren @ West Furniture Revival says

    September 22, 2011 at 12:00 am

    Im so sorry to hear of all the problems you are having. moving can be stressful enough without all the other stuff that is going on. hope everything turns out well for you.
    lauren

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  70. Holly says

    September 22, 2011 at 12:12 am

    Positive positive thinking – I’m a believer of it too. Do you watch Modern Family? Watch it tonight – first one of the season – will make you laugh! πŸ™‚

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  71. studio1404 says

    September 22, 2011 at 2:20 am

    Cassie,
    I hate that you are going through so much crap right now! I know you will get through it and come out smelling like a rose! Because great things happen to great people. And you, my dear, are great people!

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  72. Rhonda says

    September 22, 2011 at 3:22 am

    I am so sorry you’re having to go through this – what a nightmare!

    I pray that BofA is going to do the right thing and close quickly, but I want to warn you that our buyers had a terrible time closing with them. They delayed our closing (on the morning of closing) twice… after we had moved out and leased another place.

    We allowed our buyers to rent our home from us, drew up a rental agreement, and made them put down more earnest money with the understanding that if we didn’t close as scheduled they would lose that earnest money to recoup our losses. Maybe you could offer to do something similar?

    Good luck – and stay on top of things with BofA. I’d hate for them to do the same thing to you…

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  73. Allison says

    September 22, 2011 at 4:56 am

    Cassie, I am so so sorry! I am sending you a great big hug! I know this will all turn around soon and you will have have a fantastic shop and everything else will work out and fall into place. I’m sorry you are having so many bumps along the way. Hang in there my dear!

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  74. Good Time Charlie says

    September 22, 2011 at 5:43 am

    OH Cassie, this is just down right the poops. I am so sorry, that is a double whammy of yuk. Yes, thinking a lot of positive thought that the house will be available for you on Monday. AS for the shop, I am complete believer, no an absolute believer that when one door closes, another opens. I have seen it happen time and again in my life. It is just hard to walk in the darkness for a bit and trust that the better opportunity is on it’s way. Hang in there!

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  75. Rene says

    September 22, 2011 at 11:32 am

    I’m sorry that you are going through this, but it will all work out in the end my friend.

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  76. Lenore @ Lather. Write. Repeat. says

    September 22, 2011 at 2:34 pm

    Oh Cassie, that so sucks. I’m really feeling for you right now and I have all my fingers and toes crossed that everything will work itself out. Your family loves you and supports you so don’t waste your energy on guilt. I bet you will find a shop space and house that are even better…because things have a way of working themselves out.

    Hugs,
    Lenore

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  77. Anna@Directions Not Included says

    September 22, 2011 at 3:08 pm

    I’m so sorry things have been so crazy for you. Sending you tons of good thoughts and hoping it is all resolved quickly. Big hugs!!

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  78. Our Little Beehive says

    September 22, 2011 at 6:48 pm

    Ugh, what a bummer. I’m so sorry, moving is fun once you’re there and the boxes are unpacked, but these crappy details are such a burden.

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  79. Rita says

    September 22, 2011 at 6:59 pm

    I just saw this posting today…and I’m so sorry things are crappy to say the least! I’m a firm believer in positive thinking and especially for someone with a heart as big as yours…there’s a silver lining (or probably gold) just waiting for you!!! I know it!

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  80. Jenn ~ flea with me says

    September 23, 2011 at 2:29 pm

    Wow what a crazy turn of events – hopefully today things are a little better. I’m sorry about the leased space, I think it’s definitely one of those “something better is just around the corner” things so keep your eyes open! πŸ™‚ As for your house – geeeeezzzz- I hope you get in asap and get your little herd settled. Moving is so stressful and to add idiots on top of it… I’m sorry πŸ™

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  81. Katie @ On the Banks of Squaw Creek says

    September 23, 2011 at 4:57 pm

    hugs and prayers for you, Cassie.

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  82. Anita @ GoingALittleCoastal says

    September 23, 2011 at 7:57 pm

    Sorry you are going through all of these stresses. Keep looking forward. It will all be over soon!
    I was going to link up my fern stand and forgot about it. Next week πŸ™‚

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